Sunday, May 10, 2009

Thank You

6:58 PM 5/10/2009

"Thank you for being there ..."

A few years ago, I tried getting us both used to the inevitable change in our lives I knew was soon to come. It came unannounced but I knew the moment it arrived. Without a word, the only unmistakeable sign that the movie I didn't want to see was released was the change in your voice.

Over time, the less you told me, the more your tone, tempo and manner tried to say in it's place. I did not realize our exchange or dialog had become a polite or topical one and succeeded only in making any attempt we both made at conversation an awkward and counter-productive experience.

I took the change in your voice and manner too personally.

Fast forward to Present Day: I spoke to you five days ago. I sincerely appreciate what you said and will remember it always. But as much as I appreciated what you said, I can also clearly recall recognizing the tone and manner of your voice.

For the first time in two years, I spoke to the best friend I have ever had in my life. And for that I can honestly say: Thank you.

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